Why “if it’s meant to be, it will happen” is BS

August 17, 2021

I have an issue with people saying "If it's meant to be, then it will happen."

I've often heard that from women on their fertility journey.

In my experience with women in their 40s, that rarely ever happens

While that may be true with things that aren't important in your life, I don't think sitting back and being a passive participant is helpful for something this significant.

That's an attitude of "I give up." and your spirit baby can feel that non-committed energy.

My experience in working with my clients and their spirit babies makes it crystal clear that you need to put in some effort to encourage your baby to come into our physical world.

The effort doesn't come in the typical form of what else do you need to "do".

Rather, the effort comes in the form of "being", specifically being in the present through meditation and spending time with your spirit baby so that they feel loved and wanted.

They often feel neglected in the busy-ness of everyday life when their mother is absorbed in their own emotions of their fertility journey and not connecting with the love within her.

The spirit babies are very clear that they want regular and consistent visits from their mothers.

They NEED you to be actively engaged with them and to show them you're fully committed.

Be an active creator of your future, rather than a passive observer

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